-Mar 225 minWho is it for?Ask yourself this simple question to help ground your intentions, and elevate your relationships.
-Mar 1411 minBringing the Shadows Into ConversationsHow language & timing are important for working with the shadows in power exchange.
-Mar 22 minWhat is a FLR?FLR is an abbreviation for Female Led Relationship. It is a style of power exchange where traditional roles in a cis/het household are...
-Nov 16, 20213 minBeyond Pleasure: Cultivating Intimacy Protects Our Continued EvolutionIntimacy is tough...and scary. Intimacy requires vulnerability, and that takes courage. We have not been brought up in a culture that...
-Nov 29, 20203 minFamiliarity, intimacy & taking things for grantedThinking about this today as I have to remind another long-standing client about my communication protocols… Since I work in a legally...
-May 10, 20205 minEvery day is a "new normal"Greetings friends! I hope you are all managing the continued shifts, and taking care of yourselves as best you can. I have been doing the...
-Jan 29, 20193 minWho (& why) Do We Trust?To surrender is to trust...we can't let go without it. And surrender, for those who have experienced it, is a powerful pull. Surrender...
-Jan 19, 20193 minCurious & EvolvingSexuality is fluid… It changes over the course of our lifetime. Humans are sexual creatures by nature, even if our experiences of it...
-Jan 11, 20192 minSlow & SubtleThere is an art in being able to slow down, and pay attention to the subtleties...an art, and an education. I was thinking about this...
-Jan 9, 20194 minWhy #ExperienceMatters Some things you only learn by experience. Some things have to be lived to be understood. Life is full of these lessons… So is love… I...
-Jan 3, 20199 minAwareness, Afterglow & Aftercare (self)Author note: I started writing this the day after an encounter, but didn't have time to finish it until a few days later... Forgive the...
-Dec 24, 20182 min"What do you do?" *this post was updated from it's original version for application to much broader context then when I at the time I first wrote it on my...
-Dec 24, 20182 minThe Jewels of Deja VuWhat do you think about after? After the secret encounter, with that special someone who currently holds your attention… Besides the...
-Dec 24, 20182 min"Can Johnny come out and play?"I am a huge (make that YUGE! Bigly!! lol) advocate of embracing our inner child. So often we are taught to put away certain parts of...
-Dec 24, 20182 minThe Art of IntimacyThere is a beautiful art to creating intimacy. Each new relationship is like a fresh canvas, with no two paintings looking alike. The...
-Dec 24, 20185 minEthics & FantasyI was having a conversation with one of my best civie girlfriends last night discussing how I felt it was important, ethically, to be...
-Dec 24, 20182 minPaths of PleasureOh sweet pulse Racing through my body Fueling every cell Every nerve To engage in this moment To open myself and accept Is to honor that...
-Dec 24, 20185 minCatching ButterfliesI like to draw from nature, and everyday imagery, to help paint the picture of bigger concepts. Oceans, rivers, trees, animals…phases of...
-Dec 24, 20183 minRevisiting Co-creationI had a spa day lined up yesterday, and got a call first thing in the morning that my new favorite massage therapist would be out sick. ...
-Dec 24, 20183 min"But I thought this was a service?" How to elevate & co-create your experiencesI got turned on to therapeutic massage early in life…like at 19. A friend recommended this amazing therapist who came to the restaurant...