How language & timing are important for working with the shadows in power exchange.

Intimacy is tough...and scary. Intimacy requires vulnerability, and that takes courage. We have not been brought up in a culture that...

Thinking about this today as I have to remind another long-standing client about my communication protocols… Since I work in a legally...

Last night I had a dream about dating someone new. This person was rich, handsome, charming and accomplished. An exciting new endeavor,...

Fear is often dressed up as criticism. It's an attempt to make something we are afraid of go away. How can we learn to transform it instead?

Poetic free-form writing about intimacy and vulnerability