To surrender is to trust...we can't let go without it. And surrender, for those who have experienced it, is a powerful pull. Surrender allows us to let down the armor, if only for a short time, and have all of the layers of ourselves revealed, all at once. In those moments we step into our full, complete self-both our power and our frailty. In those moments we hope that vulnerability will be met with acceptance from those we have chosen to show it to... What creates trust? Ho

There is an art in being able to slow down, and pay attention to the subtleties...an art, and an education. I was thinking about this last weekend, as I lead a newer lover on a journey past his finish line...showing him how wrong he was about where that line actually resides... In the wordless waves of those continued explorations, we learn new things about each other...we learn new things about ourselves. We connect to an energy & understanding that can't be taught, or manuf

Some things you only learn by experience. Some things have to be lived to be understood. Life is full of these lessons… So is love… I have always been ahead of my time… People called me an old soul in high school, in part because I understood things, even back then, that others in my age group didn’t. Some things are in our DNA… I don’t understand how all that works sometimes, but that is one of the great mysteries of life...how some gifts we are just born with… But even w